Guys I have been getting some mails bothering on dating and relationships. I have put up a little write-up on the signs you should take note of, if in a wrong relationship!
Someone who is happy in his/her relationship consistently enjoys and feels a general sense of happiness in the relationship. There would be occasional argument here and there even the healthiest couples do but generally speaking, a person who is in the right relationship is going to be happy. So if you find yourself unhappy most of the time – and especially when you’re with your partner – then that’s a fairly clear sign that it may not be the best person for you.
Sign #2. You don't feel Good about Yourself:
In addition to feeling happy, you are confidence of yourself.Sure, you may have doubts and insecurities attimes but the time spent with you partner erases every doubt. In contrast, if your partner exacerbates your self doubts and undermines your confidence, then that’s a major red flag! You want someone who celebrates the greatness in you not someone who wrecks your self confidence and torpedoes your every attempt at growth.
Sign #3. The People you trust Urge you to get out:
Everybody around you (trusted people) cant be wrong if they are urging/telling you to get out! Of course, there are times you could be blinded to the reality surrounding your relationship because of your feelings but people around will see farther than you are and may not possibly lead you astray.
Sign #4. You find yourself constantly thinking about someone else:
You cannot be happy in a relationship and constantly think of your ex or a crush or secretly wishing you were with someone else. Regardless, if this is your case, then that’s a sure-fire sign that your current relationship is not all it should be.
Sign #5. You find yourself Denying the fact you know to be True:
I know we all find ourselves in the dilemma, where we just cant bring ourselves to see or admit something negative about our partners. If you are denying the facts or reality about your relationship that you know to be true, then you are probably not in the right one.
Sign #6. The Cons of staying Together outweighs the Pros:
Write down the advantages and disadvantages of being in the relationship.If in comparison, you discover that the reasons to stay together are more compelling than the reasons to break up. But if the opposite appears to be the case, then let logic be your guide.
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15 comments:
wow nice work and hope this helps people in a wrong relationship out there.
Educative and informative. I personally feel you sud write a book about dating. This is nice!
Makes sense! Don't always see it that way when you are in the position. Worth a save.
Nice!
Lov dis
As painful as it sounds, this piece is so on point. Wish some of us would just open our eyes, pinch ourselves and tell us the bitter truth and act on it. Well done Mariah
Kip it up Marayah!
Guys, let us be realistic here. Forget about what is written in the books. If we adhere to all these signs we might all just find ourselves leaving our relationships.
This is true six sense points, however, Sometimes we need to be hard on ourselves by telling ourselves or accepting those things that is wrong about oneself & make amendments to make relationship work & be happy in it. I am of the school of thought that says if you are in a relationship that does not add any value to you its better to get out. Accept to allow your partner make a positive change in your life.
Well said!
Well,for those in wrong relationships,better a broken relationship than a patched-up marriage!
@Toun, how many marriages are perfect/right? Majority are just patching just like being in a "wrong" relationship.
Should they all begin to seek for divorce?
Most times it is better to let God knw ur heart desire especially in relationship cos he is the only one that knows what's best for ў☺ΰ.
great article...saw your site on rccg live-stream comment feed and seems i did all what you wrote to leave my previous relationship, ill keep checking for future write-ups ...great job
I love this,
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