Guys I have been getting some mails bothering on dating and relationships. I have put up a little write-up on the signs you should take note of, if in a wrong relationship!
Someone who is happy in his/her relationship consistently enjoys and feels a general sense of happiness in the relationship. There would be occasional argument here and there even the healthiest couples do but generally speaking, a person who is in the right relationship is going to be happy. So if you find yourself unhappy most of the time – and especially when you’re with your partner – then that’s a fairly clear sign that it may not be the best person for you.
Sign #2. You don't feel Good about Yourself:
In addition to feeling happy, you are confidence of yourself.Sure, you may have doubts and insecurities attimes but the time spent with you partner erases every doubt. In contrast, if your partner exacerbates your self doubts and undermines your confidence, then that’s a major red flag! You want someone who celebrates the greatness in you not someone who wrecks your self confidence and torpedoes your every attempt at growth.
Sign #3. The People you trust Urge you to get out:
Everybody around you (trusted people) cant be wrong if they are urging/telling you to get out! Of course, there are times you could be blinded to the reality surrounding your relationship because of your feelings but people around will see farther than you are and may not possibly lead you astray.
Sign #4. You find yourself constantly thinking about someone else:
You cannot be happy in a relationship and constantly think of your ex or a crush or secretly wishing you were with someone else. Regardless, if this is your case, then that’s a sure-fire sign that your current relationship is not all it should be.
Sign #5. You find yourself Denying the fact you know to be True:
I know we all find ourselves in the dilemma, where we just cant bring ourselves to see or admit something negative about our partners. If you are denying the facts or reality about your relationship that you know to be true, then you are probably not in the right one.
Sign #6. The Cons of staying Together outweighs the Pros:
Write down the advantages and disadvantages of being in the relationship.If in comparison, you discover that the reasons to stay together are more compelling than the reasons to break up. But if the opposite appears to be the case, then let logic be your guide.
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